If your rear window is laminated glass, then there is a gel or glue like substance in the middle If so, there would be 2 thinner sheets of glass on the outside held together by the gel. The defog strips would seem to be in that gel not in the glass. So the defog strips would not weaken the glass. However if it is just 1 thick sheet of tempered glass, then it would be shattered with many bits falling to the floor. The front windshield is always laminated. I can't see how a window would break or damage from regular driving. Something odd or unknown may have occurred.